Bad News
The baby is dead. It probably died last weekend. We had an ultrasound today – after many tears, and talks and wheeling and dealing.
I can hardly believe it. I honestly thought that in spite of all my fears that we would actually have a baby this time around.
I don’t know when I’ll post. At some point I’ll post about what has happened. It’s obviously much more involved than the few sentences I’ve shared here.
We have an appt tomorrow to talk to a specialist about our options. All I know is that I want answers, and at this point – that is an option.
Nothing’s happened yet. I think the earliest the specialist can get me in for a D&C is Monday. Sucks! Sitting around all weekend waiting, and praying that nothing happens. I just want to go and and wake up when it’s done.
Love to you all. Thanks for all your support these past 12 weeks. You’ve been great!
March 15th, 2006 @ 7:54 pm
I am so sorry for you guys. I hope you get answers and ask about Lupas Anticoagulant.
March 15th, 2006 @ 9:36 pm
Patti, We love you so much and feel so deeply for you. We will be praying for peace and that answers will come. Lots of love
Matt and Carissa
March 15th, 2006 @ 10:10 pm
I am so, so, so sorry, Patti. Praying for you and the family.
March 16th, 2006 @ 2:53 am
Patti & Jon — Cara and I are thinking of you and we’re “wish” you in spirit. I’ll pray that the comfort of the holy spirit will be especially tangible, as you go through the days.
March 16th, 2006 @ 9:47 am
I am so sorry this happened.
March 16th, 2006 @ 10:44 am
Patti,
I love you so deeply.
You are so beautiful and
so absolutely amazing.
I love you.
Debbie
March 16th, 2006 @ 10:49 am
Patti,
I’m so sorry to hear the news. I’ll definitely be praying for you and your family and that God’s love, peace and hope will be with you.
Love ya,
Char
March 16th, 2006 @ 11:48 am
I am very sorry for your loss. I wished I could say something to make you feel better but I know words dont help right now. I have been there twice and I know what your going through, maybe I dont, but I have a little idea…If you need someone to talk to or anything, my email is above, I’d be more than glad to talk..
P.S I hope you find healing and strenth in the lord. Dont be afriad to grieve for how ever long you need!
God bless..
Stefine..
March 16th, 2006 @ 11:49 am
grandamgtchicca9519@yahoo.com, this is my email…
March 16th, 2006 @ 4:52 pm
Dad told us yesterday. Both Liliane and I are shocked, saddened, and have no idea what to say. We’re praying for you guys. I know God will get you through this – I just wish he didn’t have to.
Dave C.
March 21st, 2006 @ 9:33 am
I’m so so sorry. I wish I had checked your blog sooner. So tough for you guys
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