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Thoughts and Thanks From Christopher Kennedy’s Mom (Karen)

Filed under: Chris,Life — April 26, 2007 @ 11:01 pm

I was just thinking back at the wonderful things that God has done and the people that were a part of this first two weeks.


Nina’s mom and Dad who were there standing side by side with all of us, believing God for great miracles. They were such an encouragement and gave so much love and support. I am so thankful they are part of our family.

I wondered who was there right at the start…. If there was someone who went to him right away…The police, emergency crews tow truck drivers, even the kind man who was holding the traffic sing the next day when we went to the scene.. he asked if we knew anything about the young fellow in the SUV he said they were all so concerned abut him and how he was doing… I am crying thinking of how many people who didn’t even know us who cared. I would so like to thank them and give them a hug of thanks. My heart cannot express with words what I am feeling….over and over we experienced such kindness.


The ambulance people who were first to be with Chris. How hard it must have been for them. They were not able to do what was needed for Christopher and had to bring in another ambulance from Kamloops.  How grateful I am for them being there with him and what ever they were doing to keep him alive until the special ambulance arrived from Kamloops (?)At least that is how I think I heard it.. That waiting time must have seemed like an eternity.   How I wish I could give them hugs and say thank you to them.  My heart and mind goes to them with overwhelming thought of thanks for what they did for our son, (brother, husband, and friend)  I have tears running down my face as I think about this.  They were there when we could not be. God bless them.

I think of those that worked on the “jaws of life” that cut him out of his Pathfinder, How thankful I am for them too. ( I am crying again and can hardly see the keys to type.) God bless them.


I am now thinking of the special team that transported him to Kamloops. They were with him for the long journey in.

Again being there when we could not even if we were close. How my heart sends love and thanks their way.


The lady who was in emergency admitting when she got the call. She told us she started praying right away and ended up praying for Chris all night. Even after she went home.  I looked for her the day we were leaving to say thank you and never saw her. God bless her. She was praying before we even knew we needed to. She was there taking phone calls and doing what ever it was her job was to help everything be ready when Chris arrived. ( As I sit here thinking just how many people were part of getting Chris through those first few hours…  it is over whelming…..to each one I would like to hug and say thanks.

Then I think of the nurses, doctors and surgeons who were there ready to do what ever they could and maybe more. My heart overflows with love and thanks to them. I remember thinking I wonder if they are sacrificing their own time or family time to do what is needed doing?  I especially remember thinking that one time when we were wishing more could be done faster. Again more tears of thanks and love as I think of their gifts and training that put them where we needed them in our time of crisis.
I think of the awful job the police lady had  that came to tell us. What a terrible job to be the one who has to tell the family….. knowing as you wake the family at 2:30-3:00 am  and tell them to leave immediately, probably they won’t even make it while their husband and son is still alive She did so well. My thanks go out to her what a tough job. She called us later just to be sure we were okay and to apologize if she was too hash. She wanted to know if we made it in time. She did what was needed to get us rolling in less than 10 minutes. She deserves a hug and a well done.


The Chaplin, Victor was an amazing man who knew where to be and when to be there. A gentle reassuring strength came just with him being there. He was ready to help wherever he could. He truly showed the love of Jesus. He was there as we were leaving. He told us he had called a special prayer meeting of all the pastors in town to come to the pray chapel in the hospital and pray. They were going to pray for Chris. He said even though we were leaving and it was for the next day.. they would still pray.. there is no distance with God.  What a precious man…May God bless him… He really has a gift from God to help and encourage those who are in trouble. I pray God will strengthen him and pour upon him an overflowing river of love because He will just give it away  anyway.   Victor really is God’s gift of love in action.
The nurses were so kind and caring both to Christopher and with the family. I would like to name them all and think I could except I might miss one or two I see their faces but cannot remember the names. They were so wiling to answer all the question we had and kept us informed with everything they could. They were so patient with our large family. Each time I left the ICU I felt—-“ their hands are doing the things I cannot do myself for my son” but I saw in their eyes and in their touch the love I would have given him. It was so reassuring.  I will just   say we knew Chris was in loving caring well-trained hands. How my heart flows with gratitude, not to mention the tears of love that are flowing too.

It seemed in an instant that things changed and he was being prepared to go to Vancouver….Patti and I went through the hospital and felt the urge to tell total strangers….. “They are sending our son/brother to Vancouver, tonight” He was next in line to go unless something more serious came up before they were on their way. ( I remember thinking as I was jumping and skipping around about when Jesus told people he had healed to go do ‘what ever’  and tell no one….how hard that would have been  I think we felt some of what they had felt…)


Then the team on the Air ambulance that brought Chris to Vancouver.  I wept with love and thanks as they packed him up and with tenderness and gentle assurance told us we could accompany them right to the ambulance as they prepared to take him to the airport for transport.  They stopped just before putting him in the ambulance and told us we could kiss him.. when I did he opened his eyes. We felt such peace as he headed to Vancouver.  How precious they were to us. How can I say thanks…..

Then lastly.. but really it is only another beginning… Sherry… she was there long beyond her shift to welcome him when he arrived here in VGH. She has been so wonderful and helpful… we cannot say enough to thank her… again floods of love and tears of thanksgiving. 


And most of all….Nina, what a wonderful woman she  is. What strength and faith she has had through this time of crisis. I cannot even begin to imagine what she has been going  through. I am so glad she is there for Chris. She is truly the helpmeet created by God for Christopher.  She has been so patient with me (her husband’s mother) and so considerate at this time of crisis and change both in her life and Chris’. My heart is filled with love and thanksgiving to God for her. I pray for Nina that He will continue to flow sweet peace, refreshing, strength and healing over her and through at this time. 

I am sure there were others too… like the  cleaning lady who listen and hugged me when I was crying and needed to talk. I pray they will know and feel our love and thanks…. They were all gifts from God to us during this time.

God bless them I pray.

Edited to Add:

I was thinking also about the semi driver and how he had tried to stop even that… was something to be thankful for and wondered who had phoned in the accident to get the help on the way… we have so many people to be thankful for.  I am sure there are others too who did some even small kind thing to help. They are all heros….. so many wonderful people in this  world. They all deserve to have their names and wonderful deeds mentioned and I don’t even know who so many of them are…. But I think of them with a grateful heart full of love.

5 Comments

  1. aunty sherry:

    I saw Debbie and Denver at Chris’s bedside tonight…the nurse told them if he keeps on breathing well on his own(he just has a mask over his trach) then he would probably be transferred to the trauma stepdown unit Fri. or Sat…as soon as a bed was available. Praise the Lord, another step forward!! And dear Karen, you’re my sister…you would be there for MY children..you have stood for me in prayer..God bless your heart, I love you xo

  2. Lorna:

    I am in awe of the wonderful things God has done and is continuing to do. Kennedy’s you are and have always been an amazing family to me. I am a blessed women to say that I know you and am there for all of you at this time. Chris is a very blessed man to have all of you there for him at this time. Keep up the faith. Love you!!

  3. Lori (Rubuliak) Koepke:

    I am in tears reading this beautifully written post. It is amazing the number of people who have been involved and so important in every area. Even in the midst of tragedy, God has had his mighty Hand upon this whole situation, orchestrating all the people to be where they needed to be, and doing what they needed to do.

  4. Chris's Mom:

    I remembered more people who were in Kamloops and need to be remembered…and honored, Pastor Len and Leanne, they made their home available and gave us a place, at the church lot, just 5 minutes from the hospital to park our trailer. Let us use the church electricity and washrooms. Leanne took us to their place for dinner and let us do our laundry. Thank you’s to them as well. It was a nice reprieve from the hospital. Others who gave gift certificates for coffees and meals these were wonderful as our time was so irratic, with the different things that came up and we would wait 10 minutes for something and before it was time to get in we had waited 30 mins or even an hour. we never knew when we would leave the hospital and by then were too tired to go and make a meal, so for these we were so grateful.
    Pastor Mike Jones….what a pleasure to see him.. he came and prayed with us also.
    Also I want to say how thankful I am to the pastors who came to pray and give support Pastor Bob, flew down immediatley even though he was unable to get into pray over Chris… we prayed together and He and Victor, the Chaplin were able to get information for us on the operation that was to be 6 hours and ended up being 8 hours. He was such an encouragment to us and we are so thankful. Pastor Ernie and Merrilyn came down and stayed a day with us. They just hung out and listened and prayed and shared the word….How can we say thankyou for the strength and love they gave. Pastor Mike came and his church had sent a monetary gift to help cover costs for Chris and NIna God is so good… He cares about all the things in our lives and there is a whole group of people who heard God’s voice and responded. I know there are others too.. thanks to them for reaching out and being the pillars of support under us at this time.They lifted burdens from our shoulders. There are all you who have prayed and encouraged us at this time… thankyou…It is so good to hear from you and hear your words of comfort and hear what God has given you as you pray… knowing you are there… it is so wonderful… One night I was feeling overwhelmed and so tired.. I had determined I would go to my room and really pray… really intercede… as I went to kneel down I felt the Lord said to me” Just crawl in and go to sleep… I’ve got it covered… Others are praying.” I crawled in to bed and with tears in my tired eyes and slept like a baby… Thank you thank you thank you and that will not even cover what my heart is trying to say. With a gratful heart, Love, Karen

  5. courtney:

    ive really gotta stop reading these at work.

    i am so blessed and thankful to have such a loving and strong family. thank you all for being so obedient to the spirit’s leading and providing a light and example to all of us around you, i look up to every member of my family that has shown such maturity and faith in God during these tough times and am absolutely marveled at the solid foundation and peace we receive through Christ.

    thank you for never stopping believing. love you and praying for everyone. always.

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